User blog comment:Kagimizu/Broken (Copy-Pasted from SFW)/@comment-168506-20121230080225

When parents use Christmas day as a tool to "make a point" or "set an example" by humiliating their kids in front of relatives... That's simply rude and childish behavior on their part. Shame on them. And then to add further insult to injury with the blanket thing... Again, childish behavior from supposed adults. It's shameful. It's something you simply just don't do to your kids. Once your children learn that you are deceitful and manipulative, then they can't trust you. They then project that behavior onto all adults, as if their parents are that way, then others are, too. You end up harming your kids more by working to make them emotionally maladjusted simply because you think that deceit is the way to go. Proper parenting this is not.

My niece and nephews aren't the most well-behaved kids on the planet, I can assure you that. They're still young, and they make mistakes. They have poor judgment and they get out of hand. And even though on Christmas Eve, they would have been yelled at for misbehaving, that doesn't mean that on Christmas Morning, they are made an example of. And certainly not in front of other relatives! It would be humiliating. What I did for that situation, while helping to play Santa, was I wrote a letter to the kids, as Santa. I pointed out good things that they had accomplished, and then I called them out on their recent trend of poor behavior. I didn't go into any specifics, but I told them to be mindful and to lighten up on their parents. It seemed to have done the trick, as aside for some hiccups here and there, the kids were relatively well-behaved. I called them out on their behavior without being obvious about it. Perhaps if your parents had taken a more subtle approach, this Christmas Day blow-up may have been avoided.

As for the whole debacle with Guy... That's e-drama for you. And as an admin... you quickly gain enemies. Very quickly. I've gotten a few. Wookieepedia admins have lots of enemies. There are simply people out there who don't want to follow policy and feel slighted when the admin does their job, so because they lack anything better to do, they make it their life to undermine that one person. People like that are obsessive and downright pathetic. They are emotionally maladjusted and cannot seem to grow up and put things behind them. They have never learned to actually take responsibility for their actions, and thus they spread the blame for their behavior on everyone else. I feel sorry for people like that. They will never make it in the real world and will forever be those trolls who live in their parents' basement. Those are not strong people. They are weak. Weak in mind and weak in body. They will get their comeuppance in due time. And when it happens, I would love to be the fly on the wall.

The best thing you can do now is keep your distance for a while. Avoidance would be the best policy, as it will give you time to collect your thoughts. Life makes it a point to kick us thoroughly when we're down, and really, all we can do is learn to roll with the punches. I hope things get better for you.