Board Thread:Site Discussions/@comment-20015702-20140405191815

Ahoi, lads. Editors, readers and chatters alike - I am here to spread a message about some recent behaviour of users that to me : dosen't seem right

So, due to recent unfortunate events, I would like to talk about Reasoning with fights. Exprecience says that people tend to get themselves caught in issues with others, resulting in either :


 * Passing that information to other user, expanding the fight.


 * Ending the fight without any actual mutual understanding.

I've seen numerous argumenst between users, and how it ends is that one user says "Forget this, lets just not fight" and the argument ends; however in a few days or so, the issue restarts and the users fight again.

I personally think this shouldn't be done. Users and admins tend to forcefully end arguments, leaving a grudge in the users anyway that were arguing in the first place. So ending fights like this will not and may never solve anything as long as things are making no sense and an end seems unclear. If there is a fight, let it go on. Let it go on till there is some actual understanding between the users. This way, the fight has no chances of being brought up again.

Example says that I've seen too many user bicker to me about the things admins have told them even though their argument with the admin ended a while ago. So that ended argument has not ended actually. It still goes on and will go on.

Many users also complain on why there are numerous fights on this website, unfortunatley, what people donot understand is one will keep fighting till his/her point has been proven, so forcing that person makes things worse. Petty issues only start on here when someone dosen't understand another user and that has happened thrice last month. Users have fought for small things like one not liking the other or one calling the other a suck up. So I just want to say:

"Since the single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place between the people"

So to conclude;

It's better to reason out and have things at peace, not have things forced in and make it only look like it is at peace.

Thank you. 