User blog comment:NintendoJam/How This Wiki makes me feel/@comment-1669199-20150207193904

Other people on the chat often have multiple conversations at once, so you're not the only one who often has trouble trying to get people's full attention -- even I have trouble at times. And you're complaining about people not talking about you in a "positive" way as though you're owed such talk. If you want people to have a generally positive reception towards you, you've gotta give them reasons to do so, show them good things about yourself, make yourself more visible, etc. That's how it normally works in real life, and SNN is no exception. I had to earn a good reputation among my peers, same as them. I'm sorry if you're feeling more and more unwelcome, but the fact remains that we aren't obligated to think of others in a positive way just because they ask us/want us to.