User blog comment:Bullet Francisco/To All of Those Who Have a Problem With This Community/@comment-5215338-20140113142411

I don't think just "deal with it" is the right response. The best thing to do, I would say, is to talk to the person(s) of whom you are not particularly fond. Sort out the problem, settle your differences, get to know each other. If there really is something legitimately wrong with the behavior or attitude of the person in question, tell him or her, and help each other improve in a gentle and loving manner. Don't "deal with it"; you're only avoiding the solution to the problem. If you simply take time to settle your differences with someone and get to know them, I believe a lot of strife, whether spoken or merely felt, can be avoided. Your metaphor is sound; this community will never be perfect. But "dealing with it" is not the right response.

My honest opinion.